Pre-orgasmic feelings

“Our reputation is hanging by a thread as it is.”

     As sexual excitement continues, a milky fluid oozes from the bulbourethral glands and lubricates the urethra to reduce friction when the semen passes through. If this is orgasm number one of that night, this fluid will most probably not contain sperm. If it is one of the next orgasms down the line, then sperm may very well be in it -- an important fact if you are keen on contraception.

Ejaculation, or the expulsion of semen from the urethra, is a complex reflex process. This process is coordinated by a nerve center in the brain that receives input from sight, sound, and smell. The brain also receives messages that travel up the spinal cord when the penis and/or body are touched in a sensual way. The coordination center in the brain relays messages to the spinal cord to stimulate erection and then ejaculation. In the healthy and not multiorgasmically-trained man, two spinal cord pathways are involved in the ejaculatory process. If after injury spinal cord is disrupted but reflex pathways are intact, artificial stimulation may induce ejaculation.

• The T10-12 nerve pathways are responsible for emission (release) of the semen into the urethra. Brain receives input from sensory messages traveling up the spinal cord from the genital area. After that brain relays messages to T10-12 for emission, and 1-2 seconds latter to S2-S4 for ejaculation.
• The S2-4 nerve pathways are responsible for the ejaculation (propulsion of the semen out the urethra). Brain receives input from sensory messages traveling up the spinal cord from the genital area. After that brain relays messages to T10-12 for emission, and 1-2 seconds latter to S2-S4 for ejaculation.

When a man has achieved a sufficient level of stimulation, ejaculation begins, unless a man was able to start, provide, and withstand his multiorgasmic drawings 1-2 seconds before during the emission.

Shortly prior to orgasm, a man's movements become more uncontrolled and rapid, his body start to become hardened, he changes his facial expressions, he feels a sort of shudder in each nerve of his body combined with trembling. During the climax itself and on its eve one can observe heavy sweating and sometimes various sounds and grunts, the man may get to shout or to moan involuntarily. The lust accompanying the grunts is often centered on and around the penis, the testicles and the prostate. During sexual stimulation there is a point of no return for men. Let the cell phone ring its little head off, the baby can squeal and squeal, the TV might implode, but at that point nothing can interrupt the ejaculatory event.

Men quite frequently have trouble staying erect and not having an orgasm too quickly. The average period for men between insertion of the penis into the vagina and orgasm is about 2.5 minutes. Since this is an average, the implication is that some men will have an orgasm within seconds of insertion.

Once the ejaculation or multiorgasm begins, it's the wrong point to stop stimulation and would be uncomfortable for the man. If his pleasure starts to be too intense, we should go slower or with less force.

Emission is the movement of fluids and spermatozoa through the ductal system and fluids from the accessory sex glands into the pelvic urethra. Emission is mediated and controlled by the sympathetic nervous system, so it may be voluntarily controlled by a man. Emission causes increasing of pre-orgasmic feelings. At least, 75% of all men ejaculate two minutes after getting pre-orgasmic feelings, 20% are coming after one minute, many are coming after 20 seconds. Premature ejaculation is one of the most frequent complaints people have about male's ejaculatory capacity. "Wham, bam, thank you ma'am" is served as a kind of timeframe.

     Chefs note: Gentle and light stroking, tingling, stretching of testicles, perineum, anal sphincter area during breaks between masturbations of overexcited penis are very helpful in multiorgasmic tuning of a man and balancing of his ejaculatory urge. Testicles rise naturally before ejaculation. You are a lot less likely to ejaculate if you slightly pulling down and firmly stroking your rising testicles, once you recognize you are nearing the point of no return.

Ejaculatory contractions
Semen ejection
Post-ejaculatory chill
Multiorgasmic deal