“Wait a second, wait a second. I can't cook, can I? But you... You can, right?”
Every woman always wishes to know and learn more about multiorgasmic male's body. It's open class and experimental laboratory for all her life. She studies his specifications and develops her skills of handling him from the very first days of knowing him. The more she explores his body the more information she is able to get and the better she is able to talk about sex in general and her own needs in particular. Every young man very eagerly provides himself as a guinea pig for woman's playful researches, so she never has a lack of material for her lovely learning of male's body.
During this game, a woman touches her man all over. Her man thinks she is giving him the massage but she checks out all his own sexy points she can cover with her fingers. While she is doing this touching, stroking and lightly pressing, with each new move she looks out for the signs of his sexual arousal and gets feedback about what he feels really good, what maybe not, how much pressure here and there. Sensitivity to man's body comes easy: she just notices how her man responds to her touch. The game helps her become more comfortable with explicit touch and offers the most visible evidence of what it is that really gets him going. She learns to anticipate his arousal, every time she sets how far she is willing to go and stops his stimulation if it gets too hot to handle. All the time she tells him how much she likes him and his body.
1 multiorgasmic man, age doesn't matter
.........1. She sets things out to please all the senses. It should be a bed in a warm, private room. All over the receipt the man should do nothing, he just reaches and keeps his multiple orgasms in which he and his woman totally fuse, giving the sensation of being a single person. He doesn't involve going slow, holding back, or any other voluntary intervention. Reliable relaxation, and the almost frightening self-loss that goes with it, are what he has have aimed at.
.........2. She dresses in loose light clothing, soft fabrics of red, pink and purple, it let all her body breath freely and come off easily.
.........3. She carefully undresses a man. When she first touches his naked body she invents what is calls love. When she takes off his underpants, she strokes his penis, balls and leads him to light erection.
.........4. She carefully washes her man with her hands. She soaps and rinses his head, neck, chest, nipple, hands, underarms, back, pubic hair, penis, head of penis moving back his foreskin, testicles, perineum, between buttocks, buttocks, legs. She may shave his balls, perineum and anal area by her own hands, if it wasn't done beforehand.
.........5. She carefully pats him with bath towel. And enjoys his views from all his sides trying to become best friends with her man's genitals. Each man requires a somewhat different approach to get the confident feeling of his comfort and safeness, and each time out with that man may require a different strategy, depending on his mood and willingness to relax and surrender. The more resistance he feels, the more negative he experiences of touch, but by being relaxed and anticipating every sensation, he pleasurably experiences by himself and presents his woman a wide range of pleasure.
.........6. She prepare her man by first lightly tapping or patting up and down the body. From tapping to rubbing, not too hard, not too soft. She feels the warmth of his body, the movement of his muscles under his skin while her slow rocking rhythm vibrates up the legs to the hips, ready for her next move.
.........7. His penis massage becomes one of the most sensuous experiences she can share. A man really enjoys it even if she just holds his member in her hand and really feel it. She touches it with enthusiasm, caresses him with affection and full knowledge that she is a sexually powerful woman. She feels every nuance and gradation on the surface of his penis, how hard it gets in her hand, its throbbing and contractions, she feels each stroke in both directions and lets him know how good that makes her feel. She aims to give and receive pleasure in many ways during his prolonged masturbation:
.........-- She plays with different strokes, speeds, and pressures.
.........-- She uses as much surface area of her hand as she can, or she uses just two fingertips.
.........-- Because of the sensitivity around the apex and the head of the penis, she lightens the stroke as she reaches this area.
.........-- She takes his penis in her full hand as if she is going to squeeze it, and then twist her hand back and forth around it. She uses milking motions with her hand on the way up, and her thumb is also engaged with stroking the head of his penis..
.........-- She turns her hand so that her thumb faces downward and strokes from the bottom of the shaft to the head and back down again, her other hand is cupping the scrotum.
.........-- She places both hands in contact with his penis and strokes up and down with the hands together.
.........-- She keeps one hand staying on the shaft while she strokes up and over the head.
.........-- She keeps one hand staying at the base of the penis while the other hand strokes up along the shaft and the head.
.........-- She produces continual stimulation in one direction, as her second hand starts its ascent or decent the first one ends it.
.........-- She does the up-and-down stroke, adds the extra circular motion of her hand once she reaches the apex head and strokes him straight stroke on the way down.
.........-- She joins her hands, thumbs crossed, fingers interlaced, and makes him a vagina, wetting her palms first with saliva.
.........-- She grips it just below the groove, with the skin back as far as it will go, and uses two hands -- one holding the penis steady, or fondling the scrotum, the other making a thumb-and-first-finger ring, or a whole-hand grip.
.........-- She rolls the penis like pastry between the palms of two hands.
.........-- She strokes the fully engorged and hard penis, moving it around and pulling it a little bit away from the body at the same time.
.........-- If he isn't circumcised, she avoids rubbing the glans itself, except in pursuit of very special effects.
.........-- She changes hands often.
.........-- Masturbating a penis, a woman may lick and suck his balls, perineum and anal area.
.........8. From time to time she grips and massages his testicles, stretches his seminal ducts, manipulates between palms and fingers, pulls outwards and stretches. She presses and strokes with other hand his perineum, testicles, the base of his penis, between his buttocks, his pubis or abdominal area, his buttocks, chest, nipples, sides, neck, and back.
.........9. For masturbatory training she uses both soft and hard versions. The movements the woman makes will be physically the same, but she is looking for quite different feedback. In her "hard" version, whether the man is tied or free, she is deliberately holding back or forcing him on, keeping just that much out of step with his reactions. In her "soft" version, she needs to be a fraction ahead of his reactions so that he doesn't need to move, respond, or struggle. The difference can't be described, only felt. It may mean a quicker, steadier stimulation rhythm -- no slow teasing and no sudden bursts -- she is doing it and he is letting it happen.
.........10. She explores him with hands and tongue, strokes him all over, and experiments with oral sex. She uses her mouth to explore her man thoroughly and practices all her love with her man by her mouse and hands. She is loving, affectionate, and full of caresses and kisses. A spontaneous genital kiss to a man is one of the most moving gestures in the whole sexual experience. Finishing the next batch of manual and oral stimulation of a man, his glans penis should be left naked of the pulled down prepuce and opened until his erection fades or 1-3 minutes have gone.
.........11. She is patient and understands that although sometimes a man can climax at the stroke of a finger, he may take a long time to release his inhibitions and let himself multiorgasmic flow. When she uses her own rhythm it can have a different and sometimes more startling effect. She needs intuitive empathy and real enjoyment of a penis, holding it in just the right place, with just the right amount of pressure and movement, timing her action in bursts to coincide with his feeling -- stopping or slowing to keep him in suspense, speeding up to control his climax. If she thinks he is about to ejaculate (she senses this with practice), she drops the speed and keep this up as long as she thinks he can stand it.
.........12. She may take a break for however long feels right. She may sip a drink or offer a sip to her man. She starts again when she feels so inclined. The longer she waits between peaks, the farther down he will go, but a man gets back up really fast when she has true intention. She may skip just a stroke or two and then start again. If he is quite high and close to the edge, she may give him only a few strokes before he is right back up there again. A short break follows by a brief period of stroking, she makes it over and over to get him really high and tumescent.
.........13. The man is never forced to produce his milk. When he is enough tuned and seasoned, his semen starts to secrete by itself. He is relaxed, feels each stroke sensational, his pelvic area contracts involuntarily, the intensity keeps building with each peak, and seminal fluid starts oozing out of the urethral opening.
.........14. The man is churned to dry. She is in control, and she trusts her feelings and intuitions.
.........15. After he has churned his semen he may be masturbated and sucked by the woman as vigorously as she wants, but on his turn to milking and during milking she fondles him and leads him further in his multiorgasmic response very carefully and gentle. She takes him as high as she wants him to go without getting to the point of no return and then deliberately backs him off from his height or peak. His orgasms are taking him and her higher and higher at the same time.
.........16. The woman enjoys her multiorgasmic man as long as she wants and needs. At least 5-8 hours are recommended. She tries and takes him while he is sitting, standing, lying, and leaning, she moves him from one piece of apartment's furniture to another, and she transfers him from one position to another pose without any shame and fear. She takes him again and again; he should absolutely lose his perception of place and time; while he forgets himself at immeasurable heights of his multiorgasmic ecstasy, she enjoys him and is vivifying by him the most.
.........17. When your performance is over, leave your glans penis open and with the pulled down prepuce, wait a minute or two until your strong erection fades and arousal starts to release you, lay as you lay and slightly stroke you testicles of erected penis downward. You may pull your foreskin prepuce back in 1-10 minutes or later. Before pulling back the prepuce you may lubricate your dry glans penis with your saliva. Then bow to your woman, smile and start to dress. Or you may stay naked and with open glans penis as long as you like. While dressing, take your underpants just before your pants. If your penis is still erected, gently put it aside in your underpants or press it with the underpants' elastic to you belly.
Chefs note: A woman who has the divine gift of lechery and loves her partner will masturbate him well, and a woman who knows how to masturbate a man well -- subtly, unhurriedly, and mercilessly -- will almost always make a superlative man. Such slow masturbation for him is the most mind-blowing sensation of which males are capable.
Chefs note: For a woman, the multiorgasmic capacities of her man works better if she tries hand and mouth work first and moves to intercourse only when she has mastered his relaxation approach.
Chefs note: Before sexual exploring her man by her mouse and hands a woman may play different games with her man: his answering risky questions, strip poker, his stripping, hide and seek when he is nude, performing a sexual dating, blindfolding him with occasional light touches, playing sexual cooking of him by old cunning witches and so on.
Chefs note: She also may play with his feeling of helplessness and muscle struggling against restraint -- while his legs are widely opened, his wrists, elbows, or big toes are firmly tied or behind his back, or to a chair, or upright to a post. Leather or rubber straps, ribbons, cloth strips, pajama cords, bondage tape, a hank of cotton clothesline, Velcro fastenings, thick, soft rope (put through the washing machine with softener), or handcuffs may be used. The right mix here is tough plus tender, she makes it occasionally, gently, quickly, efficiently, for 5-20 minutes, and neither weird nor frightening. She restrains kindly, checks regularly, and makes all knots quick-released.
Chefs note: Slight anal stimulation of a man may be used during the introduction of a woman into his sexuality, especially if a woman has her first time with this man. Anal teasing makes the man more relaxed, opened, trusted, and helpless, it makes him pretty ready for the following process of his cooking and pretty ease the cooking. If the man has already been penetrated into anus he supposes that he has nothing to be afraid more and totally provides himself into his woman's disposal. Anal stimulations should be provided only after the man has experienced the prolonged session of his erection, sexual stimulation and multiorgasmizing. Penetrations and strokes should be pretty well lubricated, moderate, and gentle. The width of things used for man's anal stimulation should never exceed the thickness of his thumb. Masturbation of very erected or excited penis of the man should be avoided during his anal stimulation because he may ejaculate easily. Continuous and repeated anal penetrations are not recommended.
Chefs note: The woman may enjoy the performance of man's self-pleasure. A man may be embarrassed to let someone watch, but when approached seductively, he will probably relent. After that the woman needs not emulate exactly a hard and fast stroke how her man touches himself; instead, she is choosy about what she wants to use from her observations of him She strokes him up and down quite slowly and deliberately. The slow and light stroke ultimately feels better to the man too.
