“Look, I know it's stupid and weird, but neither of us can do this alone, so we got to do it together, right? You with me? So let's do this thing!”
This receipt isn't for everyday use. Whatever age a man may be, the recipe shouldn't be performed more often than once in every three or four months. Maybe, the best choice for a man not to use this receipt at all. Although, rare, careful, gradual, very well lubricated use of it wouldn't hurt a man any way and a lot enriches his self-understanding, sexuality and sensuality. Moreover, performed seldom and random, this recipe would help a woman to prepare and to tune her multiorgasmic man for the great fucking job of his penis in 2-3 hours after pretty well fucked him into his anus. Moreover, if a man thinks that a woman enjoys vaginal penetration the same way as he enjoys his penis jerking and all her days dreams how it will be fine to be fucked by a man, the following receipt stands out also the only remedy for figments of man's lusty imagination.
Being penetrated into his anus, a man has the only way to experience sensations very similar to woman's while she is penetrated into her vagina. Preparations of a woman for a vaginal intercourse are practically almost the same as man's warming, stimulation and sensualization before he is the object of anal sex.
Being penetrated into his anus is not man's first choice. Though every man may be acknowledged as a very bivalent sexual creature, being the man in front and the the woman behind, and though his anal area is pretty rich enough in nerve endings and a man may be extremely stimulated and pleased by rimming, vibrator penetration, and anal intercourse, the more rare the man is penetrated into his anus the better is for his man's health. This remedy effectively cures his wicked imagination, but at the same time it adversely affects his male strength and multiorgasmic capacities in particular. Anyway, it would be harmless and helpful for him to transform himself into a woman for some days of a year to understand and learn her feeling and his wishes deeper and better.
Most of pleasure-giving tissue of anal sexuality of a man is inside him. Men possess sensitive anal nerve endings, and many men love their partner to finger-massage them within the anal passage to stimulate the prostate gland -- which lies at the back of the upper wall of the anus. The man's inner female's nature and sensitivity, prostate and seminal vesicles' area becomes engorged with blood, passion and lusty hardness as arousal is built during sexual play. Eventually the entire inside of the anal canal becomes plump, juicy and sensitized, but it can take as much as an hour or more before he is really ready and eager for penetration just as a woman with her vaginal canal who is ready 15 minutes after a man is finished. Without proper lubrication of these fragile tissues, intercourse can be unpleasant or downright painful. Even if the woman uses a lubricant, until his anal canal is relaxed and open with excitement, penetration won't give him the delightful sensations they'd both like, just as in case with her vaginal canal, penetration, readiness and pleasure.
For sufficient and safe anal as well vaginal stimulation the entering thing shouldn't exceed an inch in its diameter. It's the skill in handling a thing rather than the width of a thing what is really matter for satiation and satisfaction.
A man may "receive" at least once to learn how it feels and how carefully to go. Although, if he has vivid imagination it may be fully enough for him to read this receipt once.
1 desired man, age doesn't matter
.........1. The first rule of any good sex is that you never do anything to anyone against their will. If the man objects strenuously to anal explorations, the women have to accept that this is one sexual activity that isn't going to happen. Still, a man with uncertain feelings on the subject may agree to go ahead -- but slowly, and with the guarantee that the woman will stop if asked to do so. If, after going some way, something happens to make the man want to stop, the woman agrees to go back a stage. This doesn't mean that the activity is put on total hold, but that the man gets the opportunity to talk about whatever is making him anxious. Of all sexual variations, anal penetration is likely to be the ones that need most emotional support. She goes slowly. Encourages. Caresses. Tells that that they are in control. If panic sets in, calls a halt.
.........2. The most important function of anybody's anus and rectum, of course, is the evacuation of waste material from the body, so it is important that cleanliness is maintained at all times when the anus is being used for penetration. Some women like to douche man's anus before anal penetration, which simply means squirting warm water into the rectum about an hour or ten minutes before anal activities are intended to begin. This helps to evacuate all waste material, after which the man is showered and washed at that the area thoroughly. This presents the woman with a pristine orifice and also significantly helps the sphincter to be soft and relaxed. For best relaxation the man may be kept in a warm aromatic bath for 10-20 minutes after washing and then rinsed by warm and cold shower at the end. However, douching (applying an enema kit that is obtainable from pharmacies) is something that should be kept for special occasions, and not done regularly. The bacterial flora in the rectum and colon are finely balanced, and frequent douching may end up disturbing this balance, resulting in health problems. So, plain water would be better, only slightly warm, to achieve the effect. The mildest soap in very small quantities may be added only if plain water does not work. A clean anus should hold few dangers, but if not properly cleaned there is the possibility of infection. Hepatitis A, B and C, virus of HIV can pass through this route very easily, as well as several other parasitical diseases. The only potential problem -- the anus itself bleeds easily. It is, perhaps, advisable for a man to reserve his anal experiments for those whom he knows well, and whose health status he is absolutely sure of.
.........3. The anus contains many nerve endings, and responds well to massage by the fingers. The woman initiates anal intercourse slowly and carefully. She begins by caressing and stroking man's genitals, slowly and delicately working her way from front to back. The body becomes engorged from front to back, so the woman waits until a man is highly aroused before attempting to venture inside his anus. From time to time she is just letting her fingers brush across the anus the first few times around serves as a promise of things to come. Than she follows her overall caresses by deliberately stroking around the outside of the anus for a longer time, stimulates the anal sphincter and the perineum stimulating his prostate externally, then moves on to caress other areas, including his chest, arms, legs, sides, face, testicles, perineum, pubis, and penis. His penis should be erected, his testicles should be tough. On another or some other round, the stroking can last longer, the fingering overture slowly turning into rimming -- drawing the pad of one of woman's fingers in circles around the outside of her man's anal passage.
.........4. The best position for rimming as well as for anal penetration of a man when he is lying on his back, either with his knees bent and his feet on the bed, or with his knees against his chest. For the more vulnerable penetration he sits up with open legs. When the woman begins rimming, she moistens both her fingertip and her man's anal area with a suitable lubricant, a mild cream or K-Y jelly or saliva, in order for insertion into the anus to be made more easily. Short, neat fingernails are an absolute must here, they are well trimmed and smooth. Jagged or sharp nails can cause damage to the delicate lining of the anus. The woman removes any rings that might have sharp edges. She accompanies all anal stimulation with good finger and tongue work on penis.
.........8. The penetrating man should be trained for rectal massage. The woman teaches him to relax his sphincter muscle and therefore make the whole experience painless and pleasurable. He does this by concentrating fully on his anus, closing his eyes and directing all his attention to the area that his woman is exploring with her fingers. The man makes a conscious effort to relax his buttocks and then to relax the sphincter. He has more control over it than he imagines. If he is inexperienced, it may take several attempts before he can allow penetration without pain. But if the man perseveres and relaxes a bit, he finds that eventually the finger slides in easily, and his woman can stimulate him by gently thrusting it in and out.
.........5. As her man becomes more relaxed, she inserts the tip of her well-lubricated finger half an inch (1-1.5 cm) into the anus and then lets the man push back rather than she pushing in. Once inside, she doesn't poke but wait for the sphincter to relax, then traces gentle circles inside.
.........6. Then she inserts her finger about 2 inches (5 cm) inside the rectum, curls the finger forward, and touches his prostate -- the man’s G spot, that becomes increasingly sensitive to erotic stimulation as the man becomes aroused and approaches orgasm. It's felt something like of the size of a walnut an inch or two (2-5 cm) inside on the front wall of his rectum. She gently rubs the prostate back and forth, massages in a come-hither motion, thrusts, strokes or presses in and out at different speeds, which also stimulates the highly sensitive nerves around his anus. The goal is not insertion or getting deeply inside, but rather to make it feel good and pleasurable. Her other hand wraps around his shaft and pushes it towards his stomach for added sensation.
.........8. It is likely that some of man's discomfort arises from embarrassment. It may take a few moments for him to accustom himself to the sensations he is feeling, and to find that they are pleasurable.
.........7. If all goes well, she makes the rimming firmer and uses the fingertip to actually stretch the entrance to the anus.
.........8. Some men find it possible to maintain an erection quite easily while being anally stimulated, while others find it virtually impossible. The overwhelming sensations from the anus require full and complete attention, and the erection simply disappears. This should not be taken as a sign that he is not enjoying the experience.
.........9. Some men prefer rimming to be the limit of their anal stimulation, but other adore it when their women go further. If he doesn't mind anal intercourse, his woman begins by stretching the anus more -- the wider the better. The woman may insert very slow and gently two, or even three fingers, which, now that the sphincter is relaxed, will enter more easily without causing the milking man pain or distress. Some women prepare their man by spending some time dilating his anus with small dildos increasing in size as relaxation increases. Other anal sex toys, such as plugs, anal vibrators, and anal beads, are also experienced as highly sensual at this stage.
.........10. Once the anus is sufficiently relaxed, the woman strips a dildos to her hips, or inserts or double-ended dildos into her vagina, or takes a condom-covered butt plug or anal dildo into her hand. The dildos should be soft and tough simultaneously. Sufficient lubrication is necessary when penetration of the anus is involved. Only a water-based lubricant should be used with condoms and gloves and dildos, as oil-based lubricants quickly dissolve the rubber. The woman always uses a lot of lubrication during this process so that entry can be achieved with the minimum of force. It always needs approaching with respect and only when there is full arousal on him.
.........11. The man stands on his knees, raises posterior and spreads buttocks. Or he can lie back with his knees up to his chest, or squat and lower himself down.
.........12. The woman carefully rubs the end of her dildos over her man's anus, probing gently and pushing slightly harder to see if it will slip in easily. The sphincter muscle, which surrounds the anus, is strong and sometimes resistant. Pushing past it can initially cause pain, and it is important for the woman always to be aware of his man's reactions. If there is resistance, she continues to massage the anus with the fingers, inserting them again. Usually the anal sphincter is all tight, because the man essentially does not want the penetration. It is important that the sphincter muscle that surrounds the anus is sufficiently relaxed that it avoids pain upon penetration. The pain means that it is better to go back or
completely stop the movement, but certainly not to continue it in any way. The man should, at the same time, be consciously attempting to relax his sphincter and exhale while he is entered, because inhalation makes naturally the sphincter more relaxed. Gentle pressing and stimulating the spot half an inch below the sphincter's opening may also help to relax it.
.........13. The woman makes another attempt to insert the dildos. If there is any indication of discomfort, the woman gently asks whether the penetration is hurting her man. Then, after reassuring him, the woman begins again, massaging the outside of the anus, gradually relaxing it before trying once more. Anal stimulation, if performed in the appropriate way, can be highly arousing for the man.
.........14. The woman makes one more attempt to insert the dildos, gently pushing at the anus until it penetrates. A courteous woman will pause as she enters, to honor the connection; he, in response, can bear down slightly to welcome her in. She goes slow and gentle on the first in-stroke to gauge how much he can take; this will vary according to his mood. Pulling back slightly, then pushing in a fraction deeper, but still slowly, anchors the connection. She should never thrust straight in -- the anus curves and he'll simply slam into his rectal wall. Instead, she should angle slightly, aiming for his belly button.
.........15. It'll help him to bear down, to breathe deeply, to relax. It typically hurts more at the start but any sharp or lasting discomfort should call an instant halt to the proceedings. The key to pleasure rather than pain is for him to be in control, so the woman gives him a safe word.
.........16. She takes anal penetration slowly and by degrees only, aiming for the least uncomfortable sensation. She is sensitive to her man's reactions, and if he shows pain, asks if he would like her to withdraw. If he says 'yes', the woman pulls out gently, and waits a few moments, kissing his man and gently massaging the anus with her fingers, reassuring him that all will be well. Then she makes another attempt, applying even more lubricant to the outside and inside of the anus with her fingers. The man may want to try to guide the dildos to the right spot and assist with the efforts to enter and fuck him. The main key to anal penetration without pain is for the woman to pause as she penetrates so that the man consciously relaxes his back passage.
.........17. Once a man has penetrated, and he is comfortable, a woman begins her thrusts. She is careful to stroke gently, and doesn't poke or scratch, and this gentle massage is sufficient in itself to create an orgasm. The man's penis is reacting with jerks. The woman starts slowly and soft, being aware at all times of her man's reactions. It is likely that some of man's discomfort arises from embarrassment. It may take a few moments for him to accustom himself to the sensations he is feeling, and to find that they are pleasurable.
.........18. When the woman is ready, and the man assents, she start to thrust more forcefully and at greater speed. Once this is achieved, the woman can then experiment with different positions, different methods of thrusting and gyrating the hips, and other ways of gaining intensity. The anus, unlike the vagina, stays tight when penetrated.
.........19. The stimulation of prostate area at the depth of two inches into the anal track energize the body. It is stimulated by only letting the head of the dildos in the anal orifice and using slow and short rhythmic penetrations so that the rim of the dildos head gradually stimulates the area to activate. It may be also stimulated by right-hand index finger gently inserted up to, but no farther than, the first knuckle.
.........20. The woman expects full penetration to take several sessions as the man accommodates both physically and emotionally.
.........21. When the dildos is fully inserted the woman makes quick, short thrusts, not long protracted ones. This helps expand the large intestine and keep the colon functioning correctly.
.........22. The man gets much less pleasure out of it than if he were the fucker -- feeling nothing at all or being lucky simply to experience fullness. The main kick is likely to be the fact of opening himself in a unique and rather "forbidden" way.
.........23. While fucking her man into his anus the woman continues to pet slightly his penis and finds out that this way men also are similar to women who may be profoundly turned on by having their anus and clitoris fingered simultaneously. She shouldn't stroke him intensively, because with weakened anal sphincter a man may ejaculate or orgasmise much more easily than usual and would lost for vast a lot of his vital energy. This stimulation is very deep and very intense. Being stimulated simultaneously through both his prostate and penis, it is much more difficult for the man to control his arousal rate than it is with genital stimulation alone. So the woman goes on slowly, if she doesn't want to push her man over the edge.
.........24. Once the woman knows what she is doing and is able to hit the spot reliably, and if she wants to make her man ejaculate and lose a plenty of his potency for sure, she gets the man to the point of orgasm first by the usual methods, then slides a finger in at the last moment as she finishes him off.
.........25. When withdrawing, she comes out gradually or lets the man pull away; otherwise she risks causing pain and tearing.
.........26. Although, a man may be stimulated to erection, abundant milking and multiorgasmic churning immediately after having been anally penetrated, all his man's potency, feelings and power stabilize and restore in a time period from several days to several weeks.
.........27. If he hasn't gone through prolonged multiorgasmic session after been fucked into anus, this would be the time for him to do it solo; a gentle woman at this point offers either to oblige or to hold his attentively while he obliges. An arm under his head -- or if he likes to be controlled, a hand pinning down his free wrist -- along with undistracting touches and murmurs show that her focus is completely on him; he needs to know that his arousal is arousing her in turn. 30-40 minutes of multiorgasmic milking and churning amazingly helps to tighten his anal sphincter and restore his sexual potency. This could lead to extended fucking of his penis. Does this happen or not, the man shouldn't be penetrated into anus again and should rest in bed for 5-10 minutes, preferably having a sleep after his extended multiorgasmic session.
.........28. Being a woman, the man learns:
.........-- how it feels and how carefully to go;
.........-- while she is penetrating a woman gets much less pleasure out of it than the fucking man -- she feels nothing at all or is lucky simply to experience fullness. The main kick is likely to be the fact of giving her body to a lovely man in a unique and very desirable for him way;
.........-- that it's the man who wakes with an erection, but women can be woken by a vaginal ache;
.........-- that it's rewarding to be able to turn to a receptive partner;
.........-- that sex hurts if it is done abruptly. Therefore you need to initiates an intercourse, even with yourself, slowly and carefully;
.........-- how is it important to concentrate on being passionate and intense. When he is passionate and intense, sex is not only pleasurable, but becomes beneficial to his health, greatly aids in the restoration process;
.........-- that a woman can gain a great deal of energy from partial sexual penetration, allowing only the head of the penis to be inserted and pulled out, but only if that penetration is performed in moderation and not too quickly or roughly with force. Any sexual penetration can also be the most destructive form of vampirism, especially if it is done too vigorously;
.........-- that by no means the man should ejaculate into the vaginal or anal tract, otherwise all the sexual energy would have dissipated;
.........-- that most women may suffer some pain with penetration and so have difficulty in enjoying sex. But during her training, she may exercise her vaginal and anal muscles to stimulate her pelvic glands, and so experienced more enjoyment than pain;
.........-- that a woman really has no pleasure and use of vaginal penetration by itself, she can't achieve orgasm only by penetration, she needs a lot of stimulation of her clitoris and all her body;
.........-- that it's not so much the width of a thing as the quality of a thing and the skill in handling a thing what is really matter for satiation and satisfaction.
Chefs note: It's amazing how much attractive, catching, joyful, healing and revitalizing, relaxing, blockage-releasing, inspirational, refining, and reprogramming anal stimulation and penetration for a man of any age may be and how pretty much sensitive, lubricated, thousands of thousands of times precautionary and exclusively apt and rare it should be too if a man doesn't want any harm to his multiorgasmic art, boyishness, sensuality, spirituality, and sexuality.
Chefs note: In Gray's Anatomy there is a graph of the anal and buttocks area showing an irregular, oval-shaped gland resting between the rectal wall and the tailbone (coccyx). The function of this gland has been a puzzle to Western medicine, but in Taoist physiology it is where the ching (essence) and qi (energy) join to rise up the spine to unite with the shen (spirit), thus illuminating the brain and beginning the process of attaining immortality. In Hindu concepts this is the Kundalini gland, from where the serpent energy rises through the chakras into the head. Anal integrity and multiorgasmic practice can greatly aid in the stimulation of this gland and can send intense waves of sexual energy sensations throughout the body. With the head of the penis multiorgasmically stimulated and anal canal closed, the man moves his buttocks and tailbone repeatedly, slowly and gently forward and back. This provides greater intensity for the man increases his sexual energy.
Chefs note: A man with his female anal sexuality behaves as a woman, especially a younger woman, who is often looking for a committed relationship that will develop and last with great sex as part of it, whereas a man with his male phallic sexuality acts as a young man who is eager for sex and may rather avoid being tied down in a relationship. For him as for a women, loveless sex outside of relationship may make him feel bad about himself, but as for a man, sex outside of relationship is an ego-boosting conquest, that confirms he is attractive, desirable and powerful. This difference in perspective leads to very different feelings of the same man about sexual intercourse depending on what part of his sexuality he represents.
Chefs note: A woman may prefer to lead the man to a standard orgasm first, to relax tense or nervous muscles.
Chefs note: Slight anal stimulation of a man may be used during cooking of his potency and balls. The anal teasing should be pretty well lubricated, moderate and gentle. For the best culinary and phallic quality of the man the things used for his anal stimulation should never exceed the width of his thumb. Any anal penetrations should be strictly avoided during consumption of the cooked man.
