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000226
Wednesday 01/12/2000 5:17:27pm
Stanley L. Vaughn
spoony8438@yahoo.com
San Diego Ca.
How long does it take for your subject's body to reproduce enough sperm for multiple orgasms, also is there any foods for vitamins that are directly responsible for keeping sperm count high?
While this conclusion is understandable, let me state that there is no relationship at all between semen or sperm production and natural multiorgasmic capacity. It is the lack of a refractory period (MRP) that makes true multiple orgasms possible for both women and (in the case of our Subject and any others like him) men.
Both the media (in the presentations and interviews I've given) and not a few sex "experts" have held the same misconception that my lack of MRP (thus, my natural multiorgasmic capacity) is somehow linked to an overactive production of semen. So you're certainly in good company with that assumption.
My difference has nothing to do with the amount I ejaculate, but instead the fact that I do not go through a Male Refractory Period following orgasm. Too often the term "cum" is confusing. I can cum and cum and cum... but each time I do, my volume of ejaculate gets less and less and less, as the "well" runs dry. After about six to eight orgasms, I'm ejaculating maybe a drop or so.
What is incredible, however, is the pleasure! With each orgasm, pleasure simply continues to become more and more intense! This has nothing to do with the depletion of semen, and everything to do with the continual, non-stop release of endorphins over and over again with each orgasm. By the time I've had about six to eight orgasms, there is a very real opiate-like high that is achieved — which is what these natural endorphins create within the brain. This is the true secret and thrill of multiple orgasms that, until now, only multiorgasmic women have experienced. And THIS is what I am hopeful will be someday possible to offer all men, should further research into this be possible.
000227
Saturday 01/29/2000 4:42:02pm
Male Scientific Research Institute, Inc
Msri_inc@hotmail.com
Actually, MSRI is based on this website information as well also additional information; this is a very legitimate organization which is presently enquiring into potential market demand for an actual "cure" for MRP. To date, informal market surveys indicate an annual gross sales demand of $40 billion in the US alone, with many times that likely globally. Currently we are a purely collaborative effort between scientists, however this is only the first phase to determine technical feasibility of a safe treatment which will yield positive results. If such seems promising, then the next phase will charter formal market studies for such a treatment, and if it supports the preliminary market studies, then serious research and development efforts will commence. Questions may be addressed to the above; information regarding your subject's willingness and availability would be most appreciated.
Dr. Bruce Armstrong, fellow consultant MSRI
Your estimates certainly sound appropriate to the incredible demand that would be generated were such a "cure" to be discovered.
If this organization is indeed legitimate, as claimed, then I would be interested in learning more. I can be contacted direct at admin@multiorgasmic.com .
000228
Wednesday 02/16/2000 8:59:16am
Derrill
Ga
It is a rare thing for me to have to wait any length of time for recovery, at the most it is only a few seconds and I'm ready to go again. My wife doesn't mind a bit, I always out last her, she is the one that wants to go to sleep after she comes, I'm still ready for more.
000229
Thursday 02/17/2000 4:15:04pm
Mark
carynccpl@yahoo.com
NC
I too have this ability, although I have never achieved 5 orgasms in a row (3 once, 2 typically).
Mark
000230
Saturday 02/26/2000 3:44:45pm
Trevor
Canada
I too, am capable of this. I have often experienced 5 to 10 orgasms in a row. I have, however, only done this while masturbating. During sex, I have not been able to try. Tell me, does your research guy experience this while making love to women? I think my wife would enjoy it.
To answer your question, yes. That's the true glory of sex, in my opinion; accompanying women from one orgasm to the next, climbing higher and higher — together.
000231
Monday 03/20/2000 5:42:49pm
Charlie
New England
I am a 58-year old male who has discovered that I can achieve 5 or 6 non-ejaculatory orgasms within a half-hour period without ejaculating. I do this entirely by stimulation of my nipples; I avoid touching my penis altogether. In most cases I achieve these orgasms without achieving a full erection, sometimes I have no erection at all. I can only achieve this during this form of masturbation, when I can exert absolute control. I cannot do it when having sex with my wife.
000232
Wednesday 04/26/2000 0:52:10am
Jon
jon1234444@yahoo.com
San Diego
I am so happy to hear that I'm not the only one who doesn't have the "Male Refractory Period." After I ejaculate my penis remains erect for several minutes. I have never really tried to see how many orgasms I could have in a row on the same erection, but one time I had two. I have been this way for as long as I can remember.
000233
Friday 04/28/2000 7:38:29am
Jill Schultz
Townsville, Qld, Australia
Your site is a great help to my husband, as he often felt weird because he can orgasm up to 2-3 times in a row without withdrawing from me (probably due to the fact that it takes me awhile). If you could help me on two matters, it would be great.
I'm a mother of 3 small children, 2 boys and a girl. Through walking in on the act to wake them in the morning, I've become aware that both my boys (aged 7 and 11) masturbate quite frequently. Two things puzzle me. One is: how young is too young to have an orgasm: is my 7 year old actually capable of achieving orgasm at his age (his facial expression is often that of a dazed pleasure and he moans softly) as adults know it, or is it more of a comfort issue; and at what age is orgasm generally followed by seminal ejaculation?
My 11 year old often has semen stains on his pajamas, which I believe to be normal, but I have also noticed a dried shiny discharge on my 7 year old's underwear on a couple of occasions. Could this just be an infection?
My 5 year old daughter (as far as I know) doesn't masturbate.
Well, it's obvious you are a much more liberal mother than most. It is doubtful many would feel as comfortable discussing their young sons' masturbation. However, as someone who also started very young, our Subject reaffirms that orgasm at such a young age is indeed possible. Though he was not ejaculating at the age of four, he was most certainly having orgasms just as pleasurable then as he does today. Of course, ejaculation adds an additional sensual pleasure that could not be experienced then. As for the discharge you mention in your youngest son, we cannot comment as we are not medical doctors. As for your daughter, who knows? However living in such an apparently sensual household, she'll probably discover herself before too long, too.
000234
Sunday 06/11/2000 11:08:05pm
Nat
femalescorp@excite.com
Canada
There is another male with the true MultiOrgasmic ability and he lives in Canada...For any women reading this, that are highly sexual, it is like having your own private erotic fantasy...For as long as you choose to continue, he will too, never tiring and seemingly never getting enough...enjoying it just as much or more than you...If there were a way to discover how this comes about and to recreate the effect in all men, I believe that relationships would not be so quick too fall apart...You have a man, who thinks the exact same way you do in the bedroom...It is too mindboggling to even imagine for most women...
Very good point, and one we've often wondered as well. At the most base level, men treat women emotionally as they do sexually (get up, get in, get off, get out). It would stand to reason that were men to find that they still desired women sexually after orgasm, they would continue to desire them emotionally as well.
000235
Sunday 06/11/2000 11:23:53pm
Nat
femalescorp@excite.com
Canada
I just finished reading a lot of the male responses to this subject...It seemed to be these men's idea of multiorgasm that probably caused me to not notice why this guy was in fact different...I have been with men that can stay hard after their first orgasm and possibly have a second soon after, or else a short down time...getting hard again with little stimulation...The difference is the man I am referring to does not hold back orgasm in and way shape or form...hour after hour he remains hard, whether we are just lying there while I am stroking it, or whether there is vaginal or oral sex...his orgasm takes longer to achieve each time, but he definitely continues to have them and there was not so much as a second of MRP in our last time together, which was 4hrs...He then had to leave and it was still hard...our first time together, we went for 8hrs and he had one short downtime and we both drank for the whole 8hrs never stopping...I believe this is probably what your subject is referring too and if it is not, then there is a man who can take it farther...*S*
You've noticed that too about many of the respondents. But, that's okay. Most of it can be blamed on all the crap out there that confuses the issue of what male orgasm really is and always has been. Small wonder most of them think this site is just another of the many out there doing the same thing.
As for your final comment, let's just say it sounds like both men have much in common.
000236
Friday 07/07/2000 5:01:21pm
Marco
Germany
I am visiting your site for quite a while and find the comments very interesting. Now I would like to contribute something by myself and ask some questions.
I am a 38 year old male from Germany and I am multi-orgasmic since my early teen years. The only "technique" I use is to increase the stimulation after the first ejaculation (with the same erection, of course). That means I have to masturbate and to stroke quite hard and usually I stretch my legs (does that increase the blood circulation/pressure in the genital area?). With that technique I always ejaculate 3-5 times in a short period. (Sometimes I go for more, most I remember was 15 times within 45 minutes). But inside a partner it is nearly impossible for me to ejaculate again, because there is not enough friction, although I maintain the erection and could go forever (which makes my partner happy but doesn't satisfy my needs). Are you able to ejaculate again inside the vagina of your partner?
Since some years I am able to get (I would call it) double orgasms. I will write something in the forum about it.
Usually I am stimulating myself a long time before I get the first climax. I am able to control myself to stop just before the orgasm starts. I can do this even more than 100 times and the more "pre-orgasms" I have the more ejaculations I finally need to get fully satisfied. But I am still a little bit afraid, if this "stop and go technique" could be harmful and cause problems to the prostate or other parts of the genital area, especially when I am getting older. What is the opinion from the medical point of view?
What is your estimation of the percentage of males being multi-orgasmic? I was surprised to see here that this capability might be so rare among males. I suppose that the potential is much higher but most men have never tried it!
Finally I am curious if you know any male multi-orgasmic scenes on the porn movie market. I heard about a movie where a Russian guy was able to ejaculate 5 times in a row, but I don't remember the name of the movie. Recently I found a link to a movie in the gay community, where a guy was filmed masturbating 2-3 times to ejaculation, but this was the only one.
Great site! Keep on going with your research!
Marco
To briefly reply, approaching orgasm and then backing off is not harmful in any way that we know of. It helps to enhance lovemaking and intensify the experience as well as the orgasm(s). Can't think of anything harmful in that.
As per our Subject: "My personal experience of in-vagina multiple orgasms, I am as capable of these as orgasms experienced in any other way. It makes no difference what kind of sex I'm having."
Finally, regarding your question of multiorgasmic males: if you are referring to true multiorgasmic males, the percentage is extremely low. In all the guest entries here, it is my opinion (based on a careful examination of their described orgasmic experiences) that perhaps 3-5 might be true multiorgasmic males. The vast majority of the respondents here claiming multiorgasmic ability, even after reading the site, still speak of multiorgasmic response in terms of orgasms with ejaculatory control. Of course, as you describe your orgasms as being fully ejaculatory, you do not make this mistake.
The second most common type of multiple orgasms described here has been that of the two-natural-orgasm variety. This is actually fairly common. Just about all men experience this from time to time in their lives. After the first natural orgasm, they find themselves still aroused and capable of having another orgasm before MRP kicks in. This is what you described here (for the most part) and in this website's message board. That you seem to experience this fairly regularly is a rarer capacity. Enjoy it!
000237
Tuesday 07/11/2000 8:25:35pm
Tom
sensual_2001@yahoo.com
Any news on whether the MSRI outfit is legit? (See earlier posting by them claiming to have a cure for male refractory period). I have found no mention of them anywhere. Unfortunately, it sounds like a scam. (If it's too good to be true. . . .).
As previously stated re: the MSRI site, we cannot comment on their claims. We are not affiliated with them in any way. As for an effective treatment for MRP, to the best of our knowledge no such treatment exists.
It stands to reason that no treatment can be developed, much less claimed, until exhaustive research has first been conducted into the causes of MRP. As such research has not, to my knowledge, ever been attempted much less completed, we find it highly difficult to believe that MSRI can claim such a treatment.
We have several times emailed MSRI requesting that they send us further info re: their "treatment," and in particular their credentials. To date, we have received nothing back from them. Thus, we too can only presume that their claims of possessing a treatment are highly questionable. Now, as to the question of the possibility of developing such a treatment, that we fully believe within the realm of possibility... but only after extensive research.
But, hey, that's just our opinion; we could be wrong. (- apologies to Dennis Miller)
000238
Saturday 07/22/2000 3:46:10pm
Mike
mx680@aol.com
Texas
I discovered your site after an "all nighter" with my girlfriend. We had not been together for several days, and she gave the gift every man wants...oral sex to ejaculation. Afterward, it took several minutes for me to even stir a little....and I found that even though she was touching me.. I could not regain my erection until I went down on her....Is this perhaps simply an arousal thing? I love to please her as much as she does me.. We then had sex for perhaps 45minutes or so and I could not come again, although she did several times.
Afterward, we went out to dinner for several hours. When we returned, we immediately had sex and I came within 15 minutes. We continued to fool around for the next several hours, always getting her off, but constantly having to "keep up" was indeed a chore. I never came again.
This is not the first example of this for me....rather pretty much my life history. Any new information regarding how to "rise above" this would be greatly welcomed.
Welcome to MRP, my friend.
What you describe is pretty standard Male Refractory Period response. However, at least in your case you were able to "rise" to the occasion enough to satisfy her. There have been many books written trying to teach men how to stay hard and not cum so as to satisfy their multiorgasmic woman. And as you apparently can already do that, kudoes to you!
Of course, as you state, this does little to help satisfy you! And this is the other huge issue I have with all these sexual performance books for males: they all center more on pleasing the female — often at the sacrifice of male pleasure. Again, were it not for MRP, we could enjoy as many orgasms as we wanted, as well as give our women all the orgasms they want, too. Seems to me sex should be a "win-win" scenario for both sexes. And, again, this is why MRP research is so very important. Which leads me to your last question.
Unfortunately, there has been no further research due to lack of resources (presently) to embark on a true study of both the causes of and possible solutions to the MRP problem. Hopefully there will come a day when science realizes the importance of investigation into MRP. Until then, all we can do is keep trying to spread the word.
000239
Thursday 08/03/2000 4:07:04pm
Bill Haddox
bhaddox@bellsouth.net
Mississippi
Wonder if there is any current (real) research to determine is there the possibility for the rest of us to extend erection time or ejaculatory capability?
There are already quite a number of books and techniques that help men learn to maintain their erections either by delaying actual orgasm/ejaculation for longer periods of time, or in stopping or retarding ejaculation so as to experience at least some orgasmic pleasures without thereafter losing their erections. If this is what you are seeking, I would recommend books such as "Any Man Can" (Hartman & Fithian, 1984) or the more recent "The Multi-orgasmic Man" (Mantak & Chia, 1996) and "How to Make Love All Night..." (Keesling, 1996).
However, if you are referring to research into the true source of the problem, the Male Refractory Period and its causes, and how these can be eradicated from the male sexual response cycle (rather than continue to treat the symptoms at the cost of male sexual pleasure), I'm afraid we have not yet acquired a funding source to sponsor such vital research.
But the search continues...
000240
Tuesday 08/08/2000 7:37:13am
Bjorn
Sweden
Hi!
Just passing by. Have other things to attend to, like working. I would like to tell about a multiple orgasm I had when I was 17. I masturbated, and came 12 times in one hour. I didn't ejaculate the last five or so times, but still I came, and kept the erection the whole time. Today, I'll have at most three ejaculations without resting more than a few minutes, keeping the erection. I'm 25. Maybe when I'm 40, I'll be normal.
Keep it up!
000241
Wednesday 10/11/2000 4:51:17pm
Raziel
Sex_Magick@egroups.com
http://www.egroups.com/group/Sex_Magick
Branson, MO
Enjoyed your webpage which is very informative. I have developed the ability to be multiorgasmic without ejaculation and stay erect after ejaculation but not have various separate ejaculations over a period of time. But I will keep trying.
000242
Sunday 10/15/2000 6:35:39am
Mike
I have a theory as to why some men may be to have true male multiple orgasms. Seems to me in the case study and previous postings, those that have this ability started masturbating at a young age before ejaculation was possible during their orgasms. Thus, the "wiring" in the brain and/or other factors may have grown to a different state from those of us who did not do this at a young age. In fact, I propose that the male refractory period is an UN-natural consequence of NOT masturbating until a later age when ejaculation occurs with orgasm. Additionally, most women that I have found to be multi-orgasmic first masturbated at young age. This theory makes sense in that the brain, in some respects, is like a muscle — use it or lose it. If we inhibit certain functions of the brain at younger age (in this case, orgasm until 12 — what I assume is the average age of one's first FULL masturbatory experiences), then the brain will not develop to its full capacity. Any comment? I will do another posting on my personal experiences.
000243
Sunday 10/15/2000 6:49:33am
Mike
Onto my personal experiences. I should note I did not begin to masturbate until age 12, and then orgasm always accompanied ejaculation. For me, I would "get hard" VERY easy all the time (I used to think TOO easy, but have since found that women love this aspect). Additionally, I had no or little "down time" between orgasms. Usually I do need 2-3 mins of a break because the head of my penis is sensitive — it's almost ticklish sensation like then. But I will totally or mostly stay hard this time, and then its off to the races again. Sometimes, not always, another orgasm will follow. I should note the first orgasm is hard to "control". The 2nd I can usually control when I wish to ejaculate.
The summer after college, I spent 5 days in a beach house with a woman. During that five days, I had 27 full orgasms. I should note that on day 3 I had only two, because we were both sore from the first two days and needed a break. Yes, I counted. 27 in 5 days or 25 in 4 days. Never done it that much again, but I am hoping too!
I recently thought that the last few years my ability to "stay hard" after an orgasm was diminishing. While I feel this may be true somewhat (due to age — I am now 32), what occurred to me reading the postings is that during the last several years I have ALWAYS had protected sex with a condom. So after an orgasm, there is a couple mins of removing the condom, which leads to a (un)natural break in the action, usually followed by a rest (because of this break) and then another round. However, I have continued to have sex while wearing a condom a few times as the erection was maintained.
This lead my to think that perhaps there are more males out there that have this ability, but the prevalent (and good I say) use of condoms is deterring those from finding out.
I am about to enter into a new relationship where I will be having unprotected sex. I am looking forward to seeing how my old ability to "stay hard" and have "no down time" is holding up (excuse the pun) after all these years of protected sex. But I truly think the multi-orgasmic male is a NATURAL thing that is cut off due to no masturbation in pre-puberty years. BY THE WAY — women can orgasms and squirt (another topic, but relevant in the sense that this was thought to not exist until the late 70's). I dated one woman who would pull out 9 out of ten orgasms. After she pulled out, she would squirt out fluid as if from a squirt gun. Then we could immediately continue. I was curious how many she could have. So one night she had 17 (15 squirting, 2 non-squirtiing) in about 45 mins. Then I had my one as my legs were cramping. Any comments would be appreciated!
Interesting thoughts. Perhaps pre-pubescent masturbation does help to prepare for a more active orgasmic life later on.
000244
Sunday 10/22/2000 11:44:28pm
Bo
no_budget@ighettomail.com
Los Angeles
I notice that as long as my erections are hard as can be, orgasm is no prob. But when (after the first go at it) my erection is softer, and a second ejaculation is tricky.
Perhaps penis size is a factor? An oversized unit would take a lot of energy to reach that stiff as a board feeling.
If what you propose were true, small-dicked guys would all be truly multiorgasmic. If you are able to achieve full erection then it is obvious that no matter how large you are, you certainly have sufficient energy to achieve this. Thus, penis size is not the issue. In addition, "stiff-as-a-board" erections are not a prerequisite for orgasm. There are many documented cases of men who fully orgasm and ejaculate with little to no erection, whatsoever. Arousal, more than any other known factor, seems to be the biggest factor in multiorgasmic capacity. Until the causes of MRP can be researched and identified, high arousal seems to be the single greatest combative force against MRP.
000245
Monday 11/06/2000 11:17:40am
Steve
steve@steveboy.com
L.A.
Well, thank goodness. I've enjoyed being a statistical aberration, but not being told I'm a damned liar. In my teens I would have 6-12 orgasms in an hour; I still have no problem with four in a row and no MRP. One of my difficulties in intercourse is my partner becoming sore before we actually want to quit — we should all have such problems. So it's nice, at least, to have some empirical corroboration.
Our research Subject sure can relate to the "damned liar" part. That's what drove him to get the research done. Fortunately for you, you don't have to endure being called a liar year after year as he did. It took him being called a liar for more than ten years before he finally found a research team willing to believe him and get this MRP-free sexuality documented. Now those few who have no MRP have both a university research study and a website that proves they are not liars after all.
As for your partner's soreness, it is believed that in addition to lubrication a woman needs to be, well, "acclimated" to an MRP-free man. Once she has been able to have her body get used to having sex several times per erection day after day she will not get sore so easily, which makes such frequent and long-lasting sex much more delicious for her, too. It is then that she is able to begin exploring her own orgasmic potentials to a much greater extent. Just be patient and loving, and allow her time to acclimate. Step up activity bit by bit, and only as she is comfortable, and after a few weeks she will be able to fully enjoy orgasm after orgasm — both yours and hers, as well.
000246
Friday 11/10/2000 5:48:35pm
Jerry
schadj@att.net
San Diego
The comments of Mike (Record 243) interested me. His hypothesis is that early masturbation experience may enhance later true multiorgasmic ability. Maybe so, but I count myself among those who do have the multiple orgasm/ejaculation ability even though I was a late bloomer: First masturbation to orgasm at 17, first intercourse at nearly 22, first two-in-a-row-in-a-short-time at 33. Now, at age 51, I can enjoy the many orgasms of my female partner while I myself usually have 2-5 (sometimes more) orgasms with ejaculation in a period of half an hour of uninterrupted intercourse. So, as I've said before in this guestbook, I think this multiple orgasm stuff at least CAN BE a matter of learned behavior — aided by lots of positive reinforcement in my case. The physical aspect seems to be simply being in good physical condition. But the mental part is more important for me: having such a good time that I want it to happen again, and then again.
000248
Saturday 11/25/2000 8:03:10am
Private Message 248
000249
Thursday 12/07/2000 9:18:59pm
Private Message 249
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